tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post7678305007157237099..comments2024-03-11T00:26:35.303-07:00Comments on The Many Banes of My Existence by Alexis: Don't Think Twice . . . It's All RightAlexisARhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09797016673203467911noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-37435123444170029372013-04-22T17:15:21.532-07:002013-04-22T17:15:21.532-07:00It makes sense that you feel hurt. You felt stron...It makes sense that you feel hurt. You felt strongly for Jared, even if you don't think he's the love of your life, you deserve better. <br /><br />And put aside all of the thoughts about love. You have plenty of options past Jared, if you decide that things aren't working out the way that you feel they should be. He may have been right for a time, but a time isn't always forever. And if he feels that way about you, it would probably be in his best interest to communicate with you to spare your feelings. <br /><br />I hope that you're feeling better about it now that you've had a few days to think about it. At the end of everything, you know what's best for you. <br /><br />Becca Bradhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17403719165386951527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-6300858026992421492013-04-21T22:34:38.615-07:002013-04-21T22:34:38.615-07:00I am so sorry. Whether it was pre discussed or not...I am so sorry. Whether it was pre discussed or not it still hurts. And you are right, virginity is not something to something to be given away lightly. I'm glad you realize this. Fist bump to your brother. Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07115154893444857726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-50264031971932704612013-04-21T05:15:44.288-07:002013-04-21T05:15:44.288-07:00Aw Alexis, that sucks. Sounds like your brother d...Aw Alexis, that sucks. Sounds like your brother did you a solid, though.<br /><br />Regarding your virginity, everyone's different, of course, but I'm really glad I waited until marriage. My decision to wait had nothing to do with being a prude or religious, since I'm neither. It's just the way things turned out. For me, it was a lot more practical to wait, even though I was 30 when I finally did the deed. I don't suggest you wait as long as I did, but you're right when you say it shouldn't be given away to just anyone. It makes me happy to know that my husband is literally the best lover I've ever had and I never had to worry about the worst unintended consequences of having sex. Best of all, I don't have any kids with someone I can't stand. <br /><br />Anyway, I know the mission is a big deal to Mormon guys. Sounds like Jared shouldn't be getting seriously involved with anyone until he figures out what he wants to do.knottyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10127277724751832329noreply@blogger.com