tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post1386985774212661020..comments2024-03-11T00:26:35.303-07:00Comments on The Many Banes of My Existence by Alexis: Judge Alex Doesn't Bring Me Flowers Anymore *AlexisARhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09797016673203467911noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-38315627053267999772011-08-31T23:38:31.926-07:002011-08-31T23:38:31.926-07:00Matt, Auntie J., and Becca, thanks. It helps.
Ale...Matt, Auntie J., and Becca, thanks. It helps.<br /><br />AlexisAlexisARhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09797016673203467911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-74276150132963720012011-08-31T22:43:36.738-07:002011-08-31T22:43:36.738-07:00Hmmm. Judge Alex has a TV programme known within t...Hmmm. Judge Alex has a TV programme known within the USA. You have a blog with an International following.<br /><br />I only heard about Judge Alex because <i>you</i> chose to blog about him.<br /><br />Now, please remind me... <i>who</i> is it who is known internationally? Not the Judge...Matthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17774822085901274565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-81213085461871094882011-08-31T21:49:13.125-07:002011-08-31T21:49:13.125-07:00Alexis, sweetie, I don't think anything you...Alexis, sweetie, I don't think anything you've written here is unreasonable, but I think you've allowed your feelings to be hurt far more than they needed to be. Judge Alex is a man. He has no super-powers, nor does he likely possess any special moral characteristics beyond what any normal man possesses. He had time to exchange tweets with you occasionally when he was on his way up the ladder of fame. Now that he's closer to having achievved actual fame, he seems to have less time for the fans who were with him from the beginning. There's nothing unique about your situation, not that hearing it makes you feel any better. Just be glad that he wasn't a person from your "real" life who cast you aside when he no longer had any time or need for you. That sort of thing happens in real life to some people. <br /><br />It makes me sad that this will probably cause you to be even less trusting of people you meet in the real world than you already are. Your situation has absolutely nothing to do with relationships in the real world.<br /><br />Even though you're putting up a brave front, I know you're sad. When you're hurt, so am I. Uncle Scott and I are here for you, and we won't become famous and forget about you.<br /><br />Love,<br />Auntie J.Just Jillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16898521926054973728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-7096166029874892572011-08-31T16:34:35.188-07:002011-08-31T16:34:35.188-07:00Becca.
I see where you're coming from, but I...Becca.<br /> I see where you're coming from, but I have a really hard time not taking it personally.<br /> AlexisAlexisARhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09797016673203467911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6485729541580426717.post-13862826246822171142011-08-31T08:07:32.946-07:002011-08-31T08:07:32.946-07:00I've noticed that he's been lacking in his...I've noticed that he's been lacking in his personal comments lately, too. I think it's just because he has so many people writing him now that it's hard to write back to everyone personally. That and, you and myself sort of fall into a category that's sort of iffy. <br /><br />Some people are willing to go over the invisible line. He's sort of in an interesting situation because he probably doesn't want to look like he's favoring 16 year olds over his other fans, which would sort of (in the eyes of less rational people, or simply people who are out to get him) make him look like a perv. Especially after the thing that happened on his facebook page not so long ago. I wouldn't surprise me if he does cut back on communicating. Even though, I think it's totally unlike him. I had written him on facebook the other day to ask if he could share a link to a community (I wrote about it on my blog yesterday) and he did, but he was sort of short about it. Not in temperament, just in his message back. He was probably busy and tired, but I wonder if someone said something to him. <br /><br />I hope you don't give up on him completely. I think we all need someone to admire and look up to. You know how much devotion you've put into him and his show and I'm sure he appreciates that -- I just think he's between a rock and a hard place when it comes to dealing with almost 18,000 fans.Beccanoreply@blogger.com